trust

August 5th, 2006 | by prick |

I turned away from a friend recently. I was lied to by this person, on several occasions, when I confronted them with some startling allegations. In due time, i was made aware that most - if not all - of the private and personal things I had told this person were not kept private and personal. At this point, two major lines have been crossed. To add insult to injury, this person has since shown zero remorse for the initial actions that they took. All this said, I can and will not tolerate this type of behavior in my life. I won’t allow this person to damage the integrity of one of the most important aspects of my life. I hope this person is prosecuted to the full extent of the law and must face up to what they did. I am disgusted with myself for trusting this person and allowing them into my life.

To be perfectly clear, my decision to remove this person from my life was not rash. I gave it a great deal of thought on my own and considered what was best for me in the situation. So, any belief that this person holds that this was some kind of group decision is unfounded and false. I have made group decisions about who I will have as friends before and they have always been the wrong choices. I learned, 2 years ago, that I had been wrong about certain people and I allowed myself to be friends with them again… and most importantly, they allowed me, too. So, I have certainly learned from my past mistakes. If this person can’t see, as I am sure they can’t, how personally their actions have affected me, then that person never really knew me to begin with.

Don’t you hate it when a friend betrays your trust and turns out to be a criminal?
Don’t you love it when you are so relieved that they are gone from your life?

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